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I'm a mammal, and my baby is too.  
01:40pm 15/06/2010
 
 
La Luna Unita
My favorite part of the article below:

"Luciano recalled how a mother who was in the nearby play area walked up to her and said, "My 4-year-old son came up to me and asked 'why is that woman showing her booby?' and I don't know what to say."

Luciano recalled her reply was to tell him that she "is feeding her baby the way moms have fed their babies for millions of years.""

I want to know what that other mother will do when her son's cat/dog/pig has kittens/puppies/piglets ... maybe encourage him to give them miniature bottles of piggy/kitty formula? The minds of women in America are disturbingly divorced from their bodies when it comes to breasts. I'm not suggesting that women should leave their nursing breasts hanging out all over the place, but the idea of calling a woman out because she's feeding her baby makes me absolutely crazy with indignation. And for another mother to suggest that the mother cover up because she's only ever taught her son that "booby" is synonymous with "no-no part" makes me about ready to tear my hair out. Nursing a child is simple biology and should be treated as such. Throw out the stupid social brainwashing and let the woman feed her baby, dang it!!


http://www.wtop.com/?nid=598&sid=1973250

Nursing Mom Files Complaint After Told to Cover Up

A woman's complaints of harassment over breast-feeding her 3-month-old son on a bench at Francis Scott Key Mall has led her to file a complaint with the state and organize a public protest.

It has also triggered a review of breast-feeding law for mall staff.

Monrovia resident Ann-Marie Luciano will lead a "nurse-in" today at the mall to underscore the rights of nursing mothers.

On May 24, Luciano was sitting on a bench in the mall, shortly after a StrollerStrides class, nursing her baby.

A customer service representative approached and asked Luciano if she was aware of the mall's nursing room, Luciano recalled Thursday at her home, her baby snuggled in her arms.

"I told her I was not aware there was a nursing room, and I continued to nurse," she said.

A customer and a guard at the mall also asked Luciano to either cover her breast or move to the nursing room, which was personally hurtful to her and against the law, Luciano said.

"I was shocked people had the nerve to come up to me and comment on how I would feed my son," Luciano said. "Covering up implies there is something shameful about breast-feeding."

Luciano's complaint to the Maryland Attorney General's Office states that the mall violated the Maryland breast-feeding law, according to a copy of the complaint filed on June 1. A law passed by the Maryland General Assembly in 2003 explicitly allows women to nurse in public.

Christina Steinbrenner, the mall's group marketing director, said she had not seen the complaint, but said it was an unfortunate miscommunication that prompted a review of the breast-feeding law with the entire staff.

She doesn't know what happened between Luciano and the security guard and customer representative, but it is not mall policy to ask a mother to move to the nursing room, Steinbrenner said.

"You can walk any day and see mothers nursing," Steinbrenner said. "We weren't ever aware that she was upset."

Luciano said she gave a copy of the law to a security guard and he recommended she take it to management but she didn't, Steinbrenner said.

Steinbrenner said she found out about the nurse-in event through an online news notification service.

"I got a Google alert about the nurse-in and once I read the Google alert I read what was being said on online communities," Steinbrenner said.

She said she sees it as a teachable moment.

Luciano said the employees who were working that day didn't follow the law, but now they will and she is glad about that.

Luciano recalled how a mother who was in the nearby play area walked up to her and said, "My 4-year-old son came up to me and asked 'why is that woman showing her booby?' and I don't know what to say."

Luciano recalled her reply was to tell him that she "is feeding her baby the way moms have fed their babies for millions of years."

Shortly after that, the mall security guard came up to Luciano and told her to go to the nursing station or cover up with a blanket. When Luciano mentioned her right to nurse, the guard reminded her the mall was on private property.

Luciano continued to nurse.

"All three of them walked away from me together, the mother, the customer service rep lady and the mall security guard," Luciano said. "I was afraid they would try to arrest me."

Copyright 2010 The Frederick News-Post. All rights reserved.
mood: indignantindignant
tags: nursing
 
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Sherlock Holmes - The Paradoxical Ideal  
02:24pm 04/05/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita








I am currently listening to the second Sherlock Holmes novel, The Sign of the Four and am of course really enjoying it so far.  When I was in middle school and concerned with the Dragon Riders of Pern and the Babysitter's Club, I tried to read Sherlock Holmes, but found it too dense to cope with.  Now it perfectly suites my reading tastes and I really love attempting to come to my own conclusions prior to Holmes' expositions.  I listen to it through librivox.org, which has a huge catalog of public domain works recorded by volunteer readers available in mp3 and through iTunes completely free.  Now, sometimes you get a pretty sh*tty reader, but even with those, the passion for creating publicly available literature on tape usually manages to smooth over any choppy recording or bad pronunciation.

I'm torn on whether I like Dr. Watson or Detective Holmes better.  Dr. Watson is no slouch in the brains department, but he doesn't have the ability to amaze that Sherlock has - if he were written in the modern era, I'd jokingly call him a rock star detective.  He is so well described (physically) that I can see a clear picture of him in my mind in almost any scene of the book, eyes sharp and observant or half-lidded with thought. 

Dr. Watson is the person I would get along with.  He's the one I would ask questions of - would not be intimidated by.  He tries to make the people they meet feel comfortable, almost in apology for his brusque colleague.  He also candidly expresses his emotions and does not keep them locked away for the sake of clear, objective reasoning.  This is part of why he would never make as great a detective as Holmes.

So that's kind of where the paradox lies for me.  The things I most admire about Holmes' character are the very same things that I think make him deficient, in some ways.   He doesn't simply use the tools of observation, logic, and deduction, he has made himself an extension of these tools.  He is, in a way, a slave to them, unable to make any action on faith or intuition. 

I am willing to allow that this is the direction in which the world has gone.  The merits of faith and intuition are downplayed because they aren't quantifiable, observable, testable like cold hard facts.  I have a lot of respect for facts and hard sciences - the moreso with my first two science classes under my belt.  I have been raised with a strong respect for faith and less so for intuition, but the seeds of respect are there.

New Agers, Fung Shui-ers, and religious nuts are sometimes thought of as loonies and their views unworthy of consideration.  Only characters like Starfire live according to emotion and whim alone - if the rest of us tried it, we'd probably be dead within a week.  Nonetheless, life lived without access and use of the things internal - "gut feelings", emotions, promises, whatever - seems like living in a cold vacuum.  My personal decision from way back was to treat logic as a tool and not a way of life.  So I do.  I employ it regularly, but not in all cases.  To give an example wherein logic is useless, let's take a scene at home of me crying on the couch over something that happened during my day.  Lyndon is there to listen and his immediate reaction is to offer solutions to the problem I describe - well, that's logical.  Knock out the source and you knock out the symptoms (i.e. me, upset, crying).  This would be the Holmes route.  However, it doesn't work.  I look up through tears and ask in a quaking voice, "Why are you lecturing me??"  Now it's time for the Watson reaction: take the girl in your arms, pet her hair, and tell her everything's going to be all right.  It works!  The tears dry up, the husband gets a kiss, and the wife is soon calm and working through solutions on her own.

All the same, (and this is what makes everything okay for me), Holmes is not unfulfilled by living in what I would consider a vacuum - all of his passion is directed completely toward his own method of detection and the pursuit of difficult mysteries is all that he cares about in life.  Since that's the case and he is a happy man, I feel a lot better about liking his character and attributing his skills to him as favors rather than faults.  To me, the whole idea is a curious conundrum of what appears to be a simple and straightforward, almost two-dimensional character actually being a character of great depth that one can happily explore thoughout books and books.

Watson is much less of a mystery in himself because we see the stories through his eyes and reactions.  But he's more likeable and accessible, as I stated above.

One of the things I love so far is how two intellectuals are never in a moment afraid to use brute force to get things done.  After peering through a keyhole into a locked room and seeing what may or may not be a "devilish" scene inside, the two of them immediately throw their shoulders into the door to bust the lock and spill into the room.  No waiting for the police, no looking for a key... just "BLAM!" 

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Impatient Dream  
12:47pm 24/04/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita
Just dreamed that I was already back at kung fu, practicing kicking.  Even though I was still technically sprained, I was also running up and down the mats just to test my ankle and it didn't hurt a bit.  It was fun!
mood: impatient
tags: dreams
 
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Oh, the knitting excitement  
11:56pm 21/04/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita
I don't precisely want to repeat myself here, but to see what I'm now working on, visit trueknit.wordpress.com (my knitting blog).  It's just a short little update; I think the reason I'm so excited is that I'm working on an old pattern that I've had to modify - one that I really would not have been able to find in an online store or from a current knitting magazine!

mood: creativecreative
 
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Digital Libraries Rock!  
01:43pm 21/04/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita
Our Chemistry lab assignment yesterday was to begin research for a short paper we'll all be writing on different assigned topics.  After completing an undergraduate degree in which most of the classes pertaining to my major required a 10 page paper (meaning 3-4 of these papers due each semester for my junior and senior years, not to mention a degree plan culminating in an honest to goodness 30 page thesis), I often think that there's not much I can learn about skills needed to do research.

Ho, boy, I was SO wrong!  ACC has got an excellent library homepage which has gathered links to all kinds of reference materials and periodicals.  There are scholarly search engine type databases and all kinds of things one can use to look up needed research materials without having to get up from the computer.  The lab was spent in the library on laptops taking ACC's tutorial on how to use all this awesome tech.  The second part of lab was spent actually using it to find articles and things for our papers.  It was all in one place and it was easy.

I'm particularly excited about this discovery because I have a report due on the HIV virus for Biology and now it's going to be super easy.

I've always been a library girl - all the way back to childhood when people still used card catalogs.  I'm utterly delighted that the libraries I use have managed to keep up with me and are still so relevant and useful to people these days.
mood: creativecreative
tags: musing
 
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Oddly Accomplished!  
02:36pm 20/04/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita

I didn't do much over the weekend - most of it was spent sitting or laying down with my foot raised.  Despite this, I managed to get CPR certified!  (I did sit most of the time for the training, but I got to practice on the dummy and all, too)  Now I know what to do when people stop breathing or their hearts stop beating.

I also finished my Tree Jacket sweater and here's a photo:



Hope that link doesn't break.  It was getting a little late when I took the photo, so it's been sharpened up a little, but I think the photo does actually do the color of the sweater some justice - it may be slightly more drab than this enhanced image.  It should shrink a little in the wash and end up more fitted, too.

And so now I've found an old pattern for a light summery top in my mom's Reader's Digest Complete Guide to Needlework.  Copyright is 1979; reprinted 1980.  Why I suddenly love this top, I don't know.  It's not offensively 1980's like some of the styles in stores right now; it's loose and a bit lacy with a v-neck and no sleeves.  I'll have to scan the page to get a photo of it up - I can't google the image at all and I don't really know if I could find a digital image of this pattern on the web.  But I'm suddenly obsessed with having a light, lacy white top and the pattern is so super easy I don't know if I could ever screw it up.  Onward, my new wardrobe!
mood: cheerfulcheerful
tags: daily
 
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Study schedule for 03/03/2009  
09:08am 03/03/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita
Complete Biol lab report on Tuesday evening
Start memorizing Chem compounds
Read and complete Ch 7 Biol, and online portion
Read and complete Ch 5 Chem

Get familiar with mitochondria functions in all parts of cycle for exam - will need to fill in blank picture for exam (essay question)
Be able to list parts of glycolysis process and products
List parts of prokaryotic and eukaryotic cells along with function (essay question)
tags: homework
 
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Homework 02-24-2009  
11:44am 24/02/2009
 
 
La Luna Unita
Just to be sure I've got it all down...

Chem Lecture: Ch 4 homework to be started tonight and completed over the weekend. Due Monday.
Chem Lab: Summary and Advance Assignment to be completed over the weekend. Due Monday.
Biol Lecture: Finish reading Chs. 6,7, and 8. Complete online portion of homework for all chapters this week and over the weekend. Read first half of Ch. 9 for Thursday this week. *correct essay portion of test for better test grade.
Biol Lab: Compose Lab Report - due Thursday. Complete prelab work for Thursday.

* As time permits, advance study and complete 3 Biology article comprehension assignments and complete HIV virus study project and poster.
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The Hamster  
05:02pm 19/05/2006
 
 
La Luna Unita
My darling Logan, rounding out his predicted 1,000 days with an extra two months or so, finally kicked the bucket this week. He was an adorable dwarf hamster who spent his twilight days sleeping, squeaking, falling down in his food bowl and occasionally running in his wheel. Early on he was a biter and not suitable for children, but either with age or a change in disposition, this quality was lost as he got older. He will be missed.
 
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So, um, I didn't really know I still had a journal.  
09:09pm 05/05/2006
 
 
La Luna Unita
I figured it would have been deleted after all this time and I had no idea I wrote so much in it, so I'm glad it's not. I've been on www.myspace.com/lalunaunita lately if you want to catch up. Geez.
 
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