My favorite part of the article below:
"Luciano recalled how a mother who was in the nearby play area walked up to her and said, "My 4-year-old son came up to me and asked 'why is that woman showing her booby?' and I don't know what to say."
Luciano recalled her reply was to tell him that she "is feeding her baby the way moms have fed their babies for millions of years.""
I want to know what that other mother will do when her son's cat/dog/pig has kittens/puppies/piglets ... maybe encourage him to give them miniature bottles of piggy/kitty formula? The minds of women in America are disturbingly divorced from their bodies when it comes to breasts. I'm not suggesting that women should leave their nursing breasts hanging out all over the place, but the idea of calling a woman out because she's feeding her baby makes me absolutely crazy with indignation. And for another mother to suggest that the mother cover up because she's only ever taught her son that "booby" is synonymous with "no-no part" makes me about ready to tear my hair out. Nursing a child is simple biology and should be treated as such. Throw out the stupid social brainwashing and let the woman feed her baby, dang it!!
http://www.wtop.com/?nid=598&sid=1973250Nursing Mom Files Complaint After Told to Cover Up
A woman's complaints of harassment over breast-feeding her 3-month-old son on a bench at Francis Scott Key Mall has led her to file a complaint with the state and organize a public protest.
It has also triggered a review of breast-feeding law for mall staff.
Monrovia resident Ann-Marie Luciano will lead a "nurse-in" today at the mall to underscore the rights of nursing mothers.
On May 24, Luciano was sitting on a bench in the mall, shortly after a StrollerStrides class, nursing her baby.
A customer service representative approached and asked Luciano if she was aware of the mall's nursing room, Luciano recalled Thursday at her home, her baby snuggled in her arms.
"I told her I was not aware there was a nursing room, and I continued to nurse," she said.
A customer and a guard at the mall also asked Luciano to either cover her breast or move to the nursing room, which was personally hurtful to her and against the law, Luciano said.
"I was shocked people had the nerve to come up to me and comment on how I would feed my son," Luciano said. "Covering up implies there is something shameful about breast-feeding."
Luciano's complaint to the Maryland Attorney General's Office states that the mall violated the Maryland breast-feeding law, according to a copy of the complaint filed on June 1. A law passed by the Maryland General Assembly in 2003 explicitly allows women to nurse in public.
Christina Steinbrenner, the mall's group marketing director, said she had not seen the complaint, but said it was an unfortunate miscommunication that prompted a review of the breast-feeding law with the entire staff.
She doesn't know what happened between Luciano and the security guard and customer representative, but it is not mall policy to ask a mother to move to the nursing room, Steinbrenner said.
"You can walk any day and see mothers nursing," Steinbrenner said. "We weren't ever aware that she was upset."
Luciano said she gave a copy of the law to a security guard and he recommended she take it to management but she didn't, Steinbrenner said.
Steinbrenner said she found out about the nurse-in event through an online news notification service.
"I got a Google alert about the nurse-in and once I read the Google alert I read what was being said on online communities," Steinbrenner said.
She said she sees it as a teachable moment.
Luciano said the employees who were working that day didn't follow the law, but now they will and she is glad about that.
Luciano recalled how a mother who was in the nearby play area walked up to her and said, "My 4-year-old son came up to me and asked 'why is that woman showing her booby?' and I don't know what to say."
Luciano recalled her reply was to tell him that she "is feeding her baby the way moms have fed their babies for millions of years."
Shortly after that, the mall security guard came up to Luciano and told her to go to the nursing station or cover up with a blanket. When Luciano mentioned her right to nurse, the guard reminded her the mall was on private property.
Luciano continued to nurse.
"All three of them walked away from me together, the mother, the customer service rep lady and the mall security guard," Luciano said. "I was afraid they would try to arrest me."
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